Mommy Can I


Internet options these days
May 14, 2009, 4:32 am
Filed under: Sign of the Times

I have to tell you that I enjoy updating my blog when I get a chance. We started a FB page, both me and Husband to update family and friends and reconnect with people we lost touch with over the years. Husband has started TWT and even started his own blog.

I started TWT today for my employer and set up a blog. I can see how TWT can get addicting because it’s so simple and easy.

Makes you wonder why people would even think about sending e-mails, letters or even make phone calls anymore when you can just look on the TWT page and see what they are doing.



Where are you going on vacation this year?
May 4, 2009, 7:06 pm
Filed under: Family, Sign of the Times

Nowhere! Well, we are going to Utah for Scoober’s birthday. He wants to see his Nanny and celebrate his birthday. He’s got his next 2 birthdays planned, as well. Next year is Chucky Cheese and the following year is KY.

With trying to pay off our debt and still wanting to enjoy our summer, we’ve decided that this Utah trip will probably be our vacation. Husband is taking off 1 week in June, but 1/2 of it will be at Scout camp with Scoober.

So, I’m on a mission to find something for us to do while we are in Utah that he will enjoy.



Saving money, little by little
April 16, 2009, 2:54 pm
Filed under: Financial Help!, Sign of the Times

Although we could afford to continue paying to have what we want, we are trying to reduce some credit debt, so we are going to sacrafice things we do not need.

1. I reduced our cable package to $29.99 and we now have 50 channels, plus all local channels. Sports channels will just have to go to the back burner until Fall.

2. We are dropping our prepaid cell phones and getting cell phone service bundled into our Qwest package. This will give us more reliable service and it will be roughly the same amount we were purchasing the prepaid cards for. We did have to pay for the cell phones, but I got 2 cell phones for under $25.00.

3. Once we activate the cell phones, I will cancel our unlimited long distance of $20/month and just get a minute plan for the home phone for emergencies.

Total savings:

DirecTV  $50.99 to $29.99 = $21.00 savings

Cell phone  $45 – $60 to $60.99 = $0 savings

Home phone  $59.99 to $30 – $40 = $19 to $29 savings

Every little bit helps.

I think we are going to look at how we can reduce our energy costs. Our electric bill is only $65/month, but seems to be high considering we’ve replaced all the bulbs. May need to unplug things.

Our grocery bill stays constant at roughly $300 to $400 a month. We’ve GOT to stop eating out! I’ve budgeted $50/month for eating out, but we usually go over that. May need to go on a cash system and then when the money is gone, no more eating out.

I’m attempting to contact my credit card companies, hopefully tomorrow, and ask for a lower interest rate, or a credit limit increase on my lower rate card to transfer my other balances to it. We already were able to get a consolidation loan for 1/2 of the debt, mostly Husband’s, but if I could consolidate my own, then it would save even more.

My paychecks are going to paying off my debt, which will start back up this month. We had some family expenses; soccer, new shoes, etc. that popped up, so we took care of that with cash instead of charging it, which I have to say was very liberating!



Angel Food Boxes
October 16, 2008, 3:32 pm
Filed under: Financial Help!, Sign of the Times

Well, I did okay in writing down everything we ate from the food boxes. We were all not feeling that great so we at a lot of leftovers.

The first meal I made from the boxes was last Tuesday. We had a pork loin in last months box and I cut it into 1 inches pieces and I cooked it with some cooking spray on top of the stove. We also fixed the box of macaroni and cheese and peas that we already had.

On Sunday I fixed a pork roast that was in the meat box I purchased from AFM. It was good. Enough for a family of 4 for sure. We had 1/3 of it leftover, so tonight I will be making bbq sandwiches and some french fries, which also came in the food box.

I was unable to purchase the box for September, but I may still write down what I am fixing each evening.

Oh, the individual meals in the senior box, I purchased those, and they are great for those nights that you just don’t know what to have. That way, everybody can pick what they want.



Free Day at the Art Museum
October 4, 2008, 7:04 pm
Filed under: Financial Help!, Sign of the Times

So, I was reading the paper yesterday and there was a full page ad for FREE day at the Art Museum here in our local metropolitan city. I thought that was really cool. It’s the first Saturday of every month from 10am – 5pm. So, as soon as Husband finishes covering up the swamp cooler, we are headed to the museum! I’ll be sure to post how it goes.

That’s a good tip for all of you trying to watch your pennies. Look around your area, subscribe to the newspaper of the biggest city closest to you, like 30 miles or less away. They always have a preview of what to do for the weekend. We only get the Thurs, Fri, Sat and Sun paper. There are a LOT of things to do this weekend for free, but we chose the art museum since Scoober is interested in painting now.

On the 18th it’s FREE day at the ZOO! If you have local attractions near you go to their website. Most of the time their FREE days aren’t always advertised!



Some ways to stretch your grocery dollar
July 17, 2008, 3:26 pm
Filed under: Financial Help!, Sign of the Times

My mom is my inspiration in how to find ways to save money. I posted the other day of a couple things that I found and that my mom helped me find. Here is another one:

www.angeltreeministries.com

This is not only a charitable organization, they are now supplying $30 food boxes for you to purchase. Go to the website and type in your zip code to find out if there is a host site where you are. There is one near me and the $30 food box gets you a LOT of different things, fresh and frozen included. Also, once you purchase the $30 food box, you can purchase special boxes ranging from $18 to $20. One of the $18 boxes includes fresh fruit and veggies! My location requires that you pay in advance giving a deadline to place an order. They even accept Paypal payments, food stamps, cash or credit card payments over the telephone.

This is one way to stretch your grocery dollar. Most things in the $30 box are things you’d normally buy at the store, including milk!



How to save money at the grocery store
May 6, 2008, 8:37 pm
Filed under: Financial Help!, Sign of the Times

Today it’s even harder to shop frugally and find bargains, and have enough to feed our families. Personally, I try to be as frugal as possible, but I’m still learning. My mother is VERY good at it and seems to stretch a dollar further than you could imagine. With 3 of us growing up, she had to find ways to feed everyone without breaking the bank.

Now, I have 4 people to feed, including myself. Winks is just 6 months old, but she’s starting on baby food and she’ll soon be joining us. I budget $400/mo for food, toiletries, etc.

Today I decided that I would go to Wal-Mart for all my shopping needs. I usually go to either King Soopers (Kroger partner) or to Safeway. Both stores had attractive sales, but if you don’t buy their sale items, everything else seems to be much higher than Wal-Mart. So, off to Wal-mart I went. Guess what? I spent about $50 to $60 less!

Now, I bought some items that weren’t budgeted for, but most everything else was food. I got enough food that should last us for 2 weeks, until next payday. The only thing I should be heading back to the store for is milk, bread, eggs, and formula. This past weekend, we bought granola bars, snack mix, and cereal at Costco which is like Sams Club. I also buy my formula there twice a month, diapers once a month and wipes every 3 months. That’s how I save a LOT of money!

So, now I have $99 leftover to buy any other groceries for next week!

I’ve learned also to shop for meat when it’s on sale and STOCK UP! One of our stores has a buy one get one free meat sale once a month, so I usually buy a couple roasts, and then I get 2 roasts free! I also use a lot of ground turkey, so when it goes on sale I buy a lot of it, too. Plus, Costco has the ground turkey in 1 1/2 lb packages, 4 packages for about $12.00, which is pretty good.

This shopping trip today, I didn’t use any coupons, but if I could get my hand on some for the cleaning supplies, etc. I would use them. I buy mostly the Great Value brand that Wal-Mart has because it’s just as good as the name brand. There are some things I buy name brand, but I buy generic whenever I can.



What our society has become
May 1, 2008, 9:19 pm
Filed under: Sign of the Times

You know, everyday I see things that surprise me and some things that do not. Today, I was in for a big surprise.

I had gathered some clothing and put it inside a plastic storage tub, marked it clearly on the top that it was for the DAV (Disable American Veterans) to pick up. A charitable donation. They send a vehicle around and pick up donations periodically.

Today was also garbage day, so I put the tub on the other side of the driveway so they wouldn’t mistake it for garbage.

It is also a very nasty day today; raining, snowing and blustery winds, so the tub was necessary to protect my donation.

I left at 8:05am to take Scoober to school. I have to drive by our community on the way into town, so when I looked over the tub was gone, and I headed onto the bank. When I drove into the driveway, I saw a plastic garbage bag on my porch, it was my donations. I stood there trying to figure out what had happened when my neighbor Rose came up and explained.

Rose said this lady (she always walks through our yard, so I know who she is referring to) stopped and looked at the tub, opened it and dumped all the clothes onto the driveway and started off with the tub. Rose had walked over to the tub herself because she thought maybe I forgot to put it over by the garbage or back into the van, so she saw that it was a donation. Rose said she saw the lady and yelled out to her. The lady pretended not to hear her. Rose yelled again and the lady started running. Rose said she put all the clothes in the garbage bag so they weren’t laying out everywhere.

I just couldn’t believe it! I mean a charitable donation and someone steals. I first felt anger, then it turned to concern and then to sadness. How sad it must be for that woman that she needs to steal? Shows a sign of our times.

Just the other day, Scoober’s friends mom was telling me how the neighbors had gone over to a vacant house where the people had been evicted and dug up their tulip bulbs and taken their flower pots. The park manager was having the house cleaned out and everything in the yard was being discarded. I don’t know why these people thought it was okay to take things like that. Makes me wonder what had been planted around our house before we bought it, and maybe it was the neighbors that took the bark that seems to be very thin.